Weve all heard it before: Just get out there and network! If it was that easy, we would already be doing it. So why is it so hard? Well, youre an introvert, arent you? Enough said. However, unless the prospect of a really long job search excites you, you have to get out there and connect with people who dont know you but who could benefit from your expertise. Below are a bakers dozen tips to help you crack the connection code. 1. Attend with a purpose in mind. Be choosy about the events you attend. Pick the ones that interest you most. It could be a ribbon cutting for a new business, a chamber of commerce mixer, SPCA benefit, or pink slip party. 2. Take a friend. Make a game of it. Challenge each other to beat your stated goals with the winner treating for ice cream. 3. Plan ahead. Set a networking goal to talk with at least five people and collect business cards from three individuals in your industry, profession, or career of interest. 4. Split up. Rule #1 is you cant talk to your networking partner until youve met the goals youve set for yourself. That means you cant sit with each other, hang around the food table together, or accompany each other to the rest room. However, you may smile encouragingly across the room. 5. Surprise, its not about you! Walk up to someone you dont know. Ask the other person an opening question. It can be something as simple as, What made you decide to attend tonight?, What brings you to this meeting?, Do you attend often?, or What kind of work do you do? 6. Focus on them! Ask compelling questions: Tell me more about your work or business. What is a good referral for you? What are you hoping to achieve tonight? Get them talking about themselves and then offer a little information about yourself. 7. Create a compelling commercial. When its your turn to tell them about yourself, take fifteen seconds or less to capture their attention and make them want to know more. Help them understand what you hope to achieve at this event and how they can help. 8. Take little steps. Dont force yourself to join a large boisterous crowd. Instead seek out a friendly looking individual who isnt part of a group. Smile and extend your hand in greeting. Hes probably as relieved as you are to connect with a friendly stranger. 9. Whats in it for you? Everything! Seventy to eighty-five percent of jobs are found through networking. Its not who you know; its who your friends know that makes the difference! So use this networking opportunity to make friends. 10. Visibility is key. As an introvert, Ive learned three important things about networking: Youve got to get out there and be seen; the more you do it, the easier it gets; and the more people who know you, the greater your chances for making meaningful connections. 11. Get on the fast track. Join a networking group. Your comfort level and connection quotient will grow astronomically when networking is part of your regular routine. 12. Smile! Be approachable. Make others want to meet you and get to know you better. 13. Make a date to follow up. Make it your goal to connect with at least one person that you would like to get to know better. Invite him or her to meet by telephone or for coffee. Look for ways to make the meeting mutually beneficial. You have a whole world of valuable contacts to share and new ones to make, so apply these networking tips. Before you know it, you will crack the connection code! |
