What does it mean to be or feel like a whole person? Well if you've felt it you already know. Most however have never felt it. If the latter is you it essentially means that you feel afraid of and avoid facing all the challenges in your life in some way. In other words you feel incapable of "steering" the ship of your life yourself and "need" some one else to take the wheel from time to time. Many consider this to be the function of relationships i.e. pass the wheel to your partner so that he/she can steer your life through the more hazardous sections of roadway. This of course leads to what many have termed "codependency" which I have also written about in this ezine. Do you like feeling less than whole? Probably not because it makes you feel needy, ineffective, anxious, defective, incapable, fearful, dependent, controlling, angry, panicked, overwhelmed, sad, trapped, manipulative, and so on. Well does that give you a good picture of what "not being whole" is doing to your life now? You see many individuals try to get others to "do it for them" because they feel too afraid to take responsibility for their own lives. This of course leads to all the feelings I mentioned above. That isn't a nice way to feel is it? I wanted to stress these feelings because so many individuals try to "not feel" them assuming that by numbing themselves to their situation it will just go away. But does it? Being honest about feeling the state of your personal situation is the first step to becoming a whole person. In those feelings lies the motivation to change your self and the course of your life. To drive the point home; if your car was heading for an embankment would closing your eyes and pretending to yourself that everything was fine make you feel comfortable? Would it help resolve your situation? Of course not! So you see, no matter how bad you may feel, those feelings are the key to your freedom and your ability to achieve a sense of wholeness. Now I'm not suggesting that one should make a habit of feeling badly, only recognize when one is and be personally honest about the cause of the bad feelings. A new modality called the Mind Resonance Process(TM) (MRP) was designed to help you make this a reality and much more. To learn more about MRP and/or to arrange an introductory consultation kindly visit the web link below. |
