There are not too many guys out there who realise that most sexual relationships (There are some exceptions) go through the same stages. Its important that you realise what these are so you can transition into the next stage. If you get these in the wrong order, you wont be getting very far indeed. There are three main stages in a sexual courtship. You must first attract the female. If you read my last edition, you would realise that you do this by conveying higher status. Once you get this idea internalized, it is not hard to trigger attraction in a woman. The second stage is about rapport. There needs to be an emotional connection between the couple. The key is to genuinely find something about the woman that interests you. She wants to know that you like her for a genuine reason, not just because shes physically attractive. At this stage, your status has dropped a little, but you are still in control of the situation. Finally, there is the seduction stage. If youve reached this point, then both of you want to have sex. From here, its mostly a matter of logistics. If you have done your job well up to this point and have been escalating physically then one thing should lead to another. |
